IS ONE OF YOU PUSHING TOWARDS DIVORCE,
WHILE THE OTHER ISN'T SO SURE?
DISCERNMENT COUNSELING MIGHT BE THE ANSWER
Discernment counseling is a chance to slow down,
take a breath,
and consider all of the options for your marriage.
Discernment counseling is a new way of helping couples where one person is "leaning out" of the relationship - and not sure that regular marriage counseling would be helpful - and the other is "leaning in" and is interested in rebuilding the marriage.
Complete the form below or call me at (909)226-6124 to schedule a consultation to see if Discernment Counseling is right for you and your partner:
As a trained Discernment Counselor I can help you decide whether to try and restore your marriage to health, move toward divorce, or take a time out and decide later.
The goal is for you to gain clarity and confidence about a direction.
You will find a deeper understanding of your relationship and the possibilities for the future.
The goal is not to solve your marital problems, but to see if they are solvable.
You will be treated with compassion and respect no matter how you are feeling about your marriage at the moment.
Since you are both in different places, you will come in as a couple but the most important work occurs in the one-to-one conversations that you will have with me.
I respect your reasons for divorce while trying to open up the possibility of restoring the marriage to health.
Even if your relationship ends, the work is about emphasizing the importance of each of you seeing your own contributions to the problems and the possible solutions, something you will take with you to future relationships should you choose to leave this one.