Can a Relationship Survive an Affair? What I See in Therapy

If you’re searching for guidance on affair recovery in California, you may be feeling overwhelmed, confused, or unsure what this betrayal really means for your relationship. One of the most common patterns I see in infidelity counseling is what’s known as an “unmet needs” affair”—a type of affair that often develops gradually during periods of emotional disconnection.

In the video below, I explain why good people have affairs, why these relationships can feel so intense, and what healing after infidelity can realistically look like. Whether you’re hoping to rebuild trust, understand what went wrong, or simply make sense of what you’re experiencing, this video offers clear, grounded insight into the affair recovery process.

If you’re navigating infidelity and looking for thoughtful, professional support in California, this is a helpful place to begin.

Alicia Taverner, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps couples heal after infidelity, years of resentment, and the exhaustion of feeling stuck in the same painful patterns.

Her work helps partners begin to understand each other again, rebuild appreciation, and create lasting change with a focused, supportive approach. Alicia uses brain based techniques, including Brainspotting and ketamine assisted psychotherapy, in an intensive format that gives couples more room to heal without the start and stop of weekly sessions.

Learn more about Alicia’s work with affair recovery intensives, relationship therapy, and ketamine therapy, or visit her About page.