The Power of Integration: Making Your Ketamine Therapy Journey Last

If there’s one thing I wish every person exploring Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) understood, it’s this: the medicine session is just the beginning. The real transformation happens as you bring those insights back into your daily life—into your relationships, your routines, your choices, and the quiet moments where real change takes root.

Integration isn’t a single task you check off when the session ends. It’s an ongoing, sometimes life-long process. It’s the intentional act of taking what you’ve been shown in a ketamine session and weaving it into the fabric of your daily experience.

This is where the healing deepens.
This is where the shifts become lasting.
This is where you reclaim your life with clarity and purpose.

Why Integration Matters

The truth is simple but easy to overlook: without integration, the experience fades; with it, healing solidifies.

You can have the most beautiful insights—realizations about your worth, clarity about your relationships, profound moments of emotional release—and still return to your day-to-day life only to watch those revelations slip into the background. The school drop-offs, the emails, the meetings, the rush of responsibility… they all have a way of crowding out the spaciousness that ketamine temporarily opens.

An experience is just an experience without integration.

I learned this firsthand.

In 2021, I stepped into the world of psychedelics. A friend introduced me to a colleague opening an IV ketamine clinic and invited me to try a few sessions. I went in with curiosity, not knowing it would become such a pivotal moment in my life.

The experience was incredibly eye-opening. I felt connected to my own energy in a way I never had before. I had a profound sense of what truly mattered—my family, my marriage, my children—and it felt as if the contents of my brain had been taken out, rearranged, and placed back in the correct order. I didn’t have swirling thoughts or brain fog any longer. I walked out of the clinic euphoric, grounded, and clear.

I went home and gave myself some time to reflect… but as the days and weeks passed, the experience began to fade. At that time, my therapist wasn’t trained in psychedelic integration, and without adequate support, the insights slowly slipped into the background. After a month, it was almost dreamlike—impactful, yes, but not fully embodied. Life simply went back to normal.

That experience stayed with me. It also became the reason I spent the next four years studying psychedelic integration and committing myself to providing clients with something profoundly different:
the support needed to make their KAP healing truly last.

KAP can feel confusing or abstract without intentional processing. A skilled integration therapist helps you make sense of the experience, connect it to your patterns, and actually live the insights in a grounded, embodied way.

Integration Tools That Support Growth

Integration isn’t about perfectly remembering every detail of your dosing session—it’s about translating meaning into action. It’s the bridge between insight and embodiment.

Some of the tools I help clients work with include:

• Journaling – capturing realizations, anchoring meaning, and noticing emerging themes. All of my clients receive an integration guide that includes journal prompts for the journey.
• Mindfulness and somatic awareness – learning to live inside a calmer, more connected nervous system
• Internal Family Systems (IFS) – understanding the parts of you that appeared during the session
• Brainspotting – deepening neuroprocessing and supporting emotional release
• Couples check-ins – applying insights directly to relational healing and communication

Integration is the process of turning insights into lived experience—bringing lessons, realizations, and new awareness into the way you show up in your life. Using these tools alongside a therapist who guides, encourages, and holds you accountable is what helps create lasting change.

Healing grows through continued practice, support, and connection.

Support Options After Ketamine Therapy

KAP is powerful, but it is never meant to be a stand-alone treatment. The typical protocol includes a series of six dosing sessions, but the real transformation relies on what happens between and after them.

Each dosing session is followed by an integration session. We also spread dosing based on your needs, your stability, and your goals. A strong, trust-based therapeutic relationship is essential—this is the container that carries you through the entire journey.

Integration is where you make meaning, build new patterns, and learn new ways of being. It’s where real life begins to shift.

And this is where I walk alongside you—not just as a therapist, but as a guide helping you anchor the transformation you’ve worked so hard to begin.

Next Steps in Your Healing Journey

If you’re exploring KAP, or if you’ve had sessions in the past that didn’t quite translate into the lasting shifts you hoped for, integration therapy can make all the difference.

You can read more about the science behind KAP here:
→ How Ketamine Rewires the Brain
→ The Ultimate Guide to Ketamine Assisted Therapy

Your healing deserves support, spaciousness, and a compassionate guide who helps you transform insight into lasting change. If you’d like to explore what Ketamine therapy could look like for you—or for you and your partner—I’d love to talk.

Reach out for a consultation anytime. Your journey doesn’t end with the medicine session. It begins with how you integrate it.

How Ketamine Therapy Rewires the Brain for Healing

If you’ve ever felt like traditional therapy isn’t sticking, there’s a good reason — your brain may have been stuck in survival mode. When you’re carrying past trauma, enduring current stress, or dealing with ongoing ruptures in your relationship, your nervous system shifts into a constant state of dysregulation. You feel like you’re always on edge, and even the smallest disagreement, inconvenience, or tone shift can turn into a blow-up because you were already at capacity internally.

These patterns don’t just stay inside your head — they show up in your relationship. Your partner may feel like they’re walking on eggshells, while you’re doing everything you can to keep yourself regulated, including numbing or escaping with alcohol, overeating, shopping, or scrolling.

Neuroplasticity: The Brain’s Ability to Change

The good news is that your brain can change. I use tools like Brainspotting and Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) to help clients create that change. Neuroplasticity refers to the brain’s ability to adapt and reorganize itself throughout life — including after trauma.

When you go through overwhelming experiences, your amygdala triggers a fight, flight, freeze, or fawn response. This part of the brain is wired to protect you, but it doesn’t understand time or space. So if you grew up in a home where yelling or punishment was normal, your brain adapted by developing protective behaviors such as dissociation, avoidance, hyper-independence, or hypervigilance.

These responses weren’t “bad” — they helped you survive. But in your adult relationships, they can create real challenges. When your partner expresses irritation, disappointment, or stress, your brain may react as if you’re still in the past. You might shut down, people-please, avoid conflict, or try to control your environment because that’s what your nervous system learned to do to stay safe. It doesn’t automatically know that your partner isn’t your caregiver, and that there is no threat of harm.

This is where ketamine can be incredibly powerful.

How Ketamine Therapy Creates New Connections in the Brain

Ketamine increases neuroplasticity and helps create new neural pathways. That means when your partner sighs heavily, or gets frustrated about a long line at the store, you no longer feel the impulse to shut down, panic, or fix everything. You can respond from your higher self rather than from old survival patterns.

Many clients describe feeling like they can finally show up as who they truly are — not the version of themselves shaped by trauma, fear, or self-blame.

If you’re curious about how this experience differs from IV-only ketamine clinics, I’ve written about it here:
👉 KAP vs. IV Ketamine Clinics: What’s the Difference?

Quieting the Default Mode Network

Ketamine also works on the brain’s default mode network — the area responsible for rumination, hypervigilance, and that inner critic that never seems to turn off. When ketamine softens this network, the brain gets a reset. The inner critic quiets, self-compassion becomes accessible, and your system can finally downshift out of survival mode.

Clients often report:

• feeling more present with their partner

• communicating with less reactivity

• sleeping better

• improved focus on daily tasks

• increased motivation and clarity

This is part of why KAP can be so transformative in couples work as well — calmer nervous systems create safer, deeper connection.

If you want a closer look at what a KAP session actually looks like, you can explore that here:
👉 What Really Happens in a Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy Session

Why Integration Matters for Lasting Change

Ketamine creates a window of neuroplasticity for 1–5 days. During this time, your brain is wide open to forming new beliefs, new patterns, and new emotional responses. Integration is the process of taking the insights from the dosing session and grounding them into daily life.

Without integration, insights fade.
With Ketamine Therapy + intentional integration, they take root.

This is why Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy is so different from IV-only ketamine clinics — therapy is what helps turn the neuroplasticity window into meaningful, lasting transformation.

A Stronger, Clearer Path Forward

If you’ve been stuck in old patterns for years and traditional therapy hasn’t shifted things the way you hoped, it doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means your brain needs support rewiring itself. Ketamine therapy can create that opening, giving you access to healing, connection, and emotional clarity that were previously out of reach.

If you're ready to explore whether KAP or a KAP intensive could help you or your relationship, I’d love to talk.
Click here to schedule a free 30-minute consultation, and let’s see what’s possible for your healing.

What does Ketamine feel Like?

If you’re considering trying Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP), one of the things you might be wondering is, what does it actually feel like when you are under the influence of the medicine? 

If you’ve never used any type of psychedelic drug recreationally then it’s difficult to have a frame of reference. 

You may have experiences with alcohol, but Ketamine is nothing like alcohol. 

Everyone’s experience is different and the same person can have very different experiences in each Ketamine journey. 

For most people Ketamine feels like a dream-like state. But most agree that they have more of a felt sense in their body than they would in a dream. 

The experience is also not as fleeting as a dream and it’s much easier to remember than a dream. 

There is often a point where people feel a disconnection from their body and an out-of-body experience. 

You might fear losing control. But unlike being under the influence of alcohol, there’s no slurring, telling of secrets, or uncontrollable or unwanted behaviors. 

KAP clients are safe and comfortable lying down with an eye mask and headphones throughout the experience. 

What makes KAP so different from recreational drug experiences is that you’re using the medicine in a controlled setting with the intention of healing. 

Over the last several months I’ve seen some of the most profound changes for clients using KAP as a part of their treatment. Things we’ve been working on for years are clicking, and there’s so much positive forward movement. 

It’s during these out of body experiences and in this dream-like state that many clients experience a feeling of freedom from their self-defeating thoughts and patterns. 

For the first time their minds are completely clear. There’s no questioning of their every move. They don’t have a to-do list, and they aren’t replaying difficult memories or feelings. 

For the first time ever, they can just be. And it’s unlike anything they’ve experienced before. 

Some people become connected to younger parts of themselves that have felt lost and disconnected, and this creates a profound sense of healing. 

Integration sessions following these dosing sessions help clients return to these states without the medicine in their day-to-day lives. 

This allows People to feel like they can let go and move on from traumatic events that have kept them stuck for so long. 

A recent New York Times Op-Doc was released and it depicts the use of KAP for a firefighter and it does a really great job of showing how a ketamine session actually looks. In the documentary they use an IV which is different from the lozenges that my clients are prescribed, but the depiction is very similar. You can watch it here, it’s only 17 minutes long. 

If this sounds like something you’d like to experience for yourself, click the link here and book your free 15-minute phone consultation.  

Ketamine Therapy VS Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy

Ketamine clinics are popping up all over California. The research is exciting. It reports immediate relief from treatment-resistant depression, anxiety, and PTSD. 

Most people experience immediate relief. But, these reports often overlook the importance of integration as an ongoing process.  This is truly what creates lasting change. 

Ketamine Therapy is the process of receiving Ketamine. You can administer it through an IV, a lozenge, or nasal spray. Most Ketamine clinics provide a medical evaluation prior to treatment. Then, the patient arrives and the drug is administered. 

Ketamine remains in the system for 45 minutes to 2 hours. During this time, the person feels sedated and has an internal psychedelic experience. Once the experience is over, a chaperone will wheel the patient out to drive them home. 

Without appropriate integration, the experience is just an experience. It can be difficult to process the learnings from the experience. It can be difficult to allow them to permeate everyday life. 

Why Choose KAP?

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is more fully supported. The emphasis and focus are on the preparation, intention setting, and integration processes. 

Much of the research on psychedelic assisted therapy discusses the importance of set and setting. It determines whether a person will experience a positive outcome. I strongly believe that. 

Set refers to the mindset in which a person is in prior to an experience. The setting refers to the physical space and energy surrounding the experience. 

Many people use psychedelics recreationally. The experience is not therapeutic or healing. It is just an experience. 

The Power of Integration

In my work with KAP clients I first seek to know them, their histories, and their goals for treatment. This sets the stage for the work we will do together and it is about trust building. 

Most of my clients have never used any type of recreational drugs. We spend a lot of time preparing for a dosing session. We focus on answering questions. We also discuss the fears and anxieties that naturally come up. 

We also spend a lot of time discussing goals and intentions. I carefully prepare the space for each dosing session. I incorporate aromatherapy and music to enhance each client’s experience. This also helps with integration. 

Ketamine Journeys are 3-hour sessions. We discuss intentions and practice meditation. I help ease the client into the experience. Once the effects of the ketamine wear off there is plenty of time for clients to return to their bodies and process the experience. 

1-3 days following a journey, clients return to my office for an integration session. In this session, we also use aromatherapy. It helps the client remember the learnings they experienced during their journey. We discuss any insights they’ve had. I also use Brainspotting to anchor in the experience. It helps clients return to the places and feelings they’d like to take away from the experience. 

Real Results, Real Transformation

Last week, I shared some of the amazing results my clients are experiencing after just one Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) session. 

Improved sleep, the ability to be present, implementing healthy lifestyle changes, and seeing oneself positively... the list goes on and on. In case you missed that email you can read it here. 

If you’re ready to embark on a transformative journey click the link below to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation. We’ll answer all your questions and make sure it’s right for you.