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Can a Relationship Survive an Affair? What I See in Therapy
Many affairs don’t begin with the intention to leave a relationship. Instead, they often develop slowly during periods of emotional disconnection, when one partner begins to feel that important needs are going unmet. In this post and video, I explain what therapists call the “unmet needs” affair, why these relationships can feel so intense and confusing, and what they do—and don’t—mean about your marriage or partnership. If you’re navigating betrayal and searching for clarity, this guide offers grounded insight into affair recovery, rebuilding trust, and healing after infidelity in California.
If you’re searching for guidance on affair recovery in California, you may be feeling overwhelmed, confused, or unsure what this betrayal really means for your relationship. One of the most common patterns I see in infidelity counseling is what’s known as an “unmet needs” affair”—a type of affair that often develops gradually during periods of emotional disconnection.
In the video below, I explain why good people have affairs, why these relationships can feel so intense, and what healing after infidelity can realistically look like. Whether you’re hoping to rebuild trust, understand what went wrong, or simply make sense of what you’re experiencing, this video offers clear, grounded insight into the affair recovery process.
If you’re navigating infidelity and looking for thoughtful, professional support in California, this is a helpful place to begin.