There’s a saying that gets thrown around a lot: Once a cheater, always a cheater.

As a therapist who specializes in helping individuals navigate the complexities of relationships, I hear this phrase often—especially from people who never expected to be in this position. High-performing professionals, leaders, and driven individuals are no exception. You may excel in your career, lead teams, and make high-stakes decisions daily—but when it comes to your relationship, you’re suddenly the one who broke something.

Here’s what I want you to know: That phrase doesn’t have to define you. Infidelity doesn’t have to be your identity.

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