Stop having the same conversation over and over
There is so much hurt after infidelity.
You might think you’re doing the right things by agreeing to check in often,
Getting all of the passwords to phones, laptops, and social media,
and turning your locations on on your phones.
BUT THE HURT IS STILL THERE.
The nights are long and sleepless,
and your partner is getting pissed off that you keeping asking the same questions over and over.
You are hopeful that things will get better, but it’s not happening fast enough,
I’m guessing that’s why you’re here.
Going at this alone means
You keep asking until you get a different answer
You rebuild trust slowly
Feel like if you don’t bring up the affair it will be forgotten
Have anxiety about bringing up how you feel, especially if you are actually having a good time together
Question whether you should even stay together because it doesn’t seem like you’ll ever be able to move forward
You know you want your relationship to change, but how?
When trust has been lost and you have so many questions it can be hard to envision working through it just one week at a time.
Intensives are appropriate for couples who want to work through their hurts and get on the right path to recovering from infidelity.
Infidelity is devastating and it leads to so many questions - many of which can’t be answered in a regular, one hour session.
Mapping out a plan to work on rebuilding trust often takes weeks, and the thought of living with this hurt every day while you work through this process can be daunting, but an intensive can help speed up this process.
Intensives provide a dedicated space and time for having open discussion about the affair that doesn’t end in a shouting match.
COUPLES COME AWAY WITH:
The ability to communicate openly and effectively through the hurt and pain
A detailed plan to reestablish trust in the relationship
A mutual understanding about ways to enhance your bond with your partner
Months worth of change after just one intensive
How it works:
Intensives are 8 hours and typically scheduled on Saturday or Sunday with lunch and snacks included
Couples meet with a couples expert who specializes in infidelity work and is dedicated to helping couples move through this challenging process
Couples take time before the intensive to complete an in-depth assessment so that their intensive is designed specifically for them