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The Biggest Mistakes Couples Make After an Affair (That Keep You Stuck)
Many couples try to move on after an affair by not talking about it—only to find it keeps coming back up months or years later. In this post, learn the biggest mistakes couples make after infidelity and why avoiding the pain can actually delay healing.
When Good People Cheat: The Unmet Needs Affair
There are many types of affairs. The most common one that I see is the “unmet needs” affair. The unmet needs affair happens when you feel as though there is something missing in your relationship with your partner.
Am I to blame for my partner’s Affair?
When you discover that your partner has had an affair, it’s common to press rewind on the last year of your life together and look for all the signs you should have seen and things you missed. The times they were out late and didn’t invite you, the times they were on the phone way too long with their work colleague and you gave them the benefit of the doubt, not wanting to rock the boat.
Why? And other questions after Infidelity
There are so many questions that come up after one partner has an affair, and the main question that I hear when working with couples struggling to move forward is, why? This is usually one of the main questions asked by the injured partner, however it is typically something that the participating partner has the most difficulty answering. I suggest more important things to focus on while getting to the “why?”: